The most successful people in life are not Go-Getters!

, The most successful people in life are not Go-Getters!Go Givers!!

I have recently been speaking and writing about the winners mindset. Having the right attitude/mindset in life and business is fundamentally more important  than things like  knowledge or your actions. Because if you don’t have the right attitude and mindset before yous start you really won’t ever get there. Here is my view on the givers mindset…

It’s been said that you cannot give away what you do not have. One of the most spiritual important insights or secrets in life is that you already have, and always have had, what you need to give away! If you impart the message that ‘I am not worthy’ the universe will send it straight back in many shapes, forms and circumstances.

When we say ‘give me’ we are imparting this message. We are saying we think we need to get something to complete ourselves or prove our worth. Most of us are taught to live a life of gimmie, gimmie, gimmie!! – always striving, desiring, wanting, struggling.

We do so only because we think that when we get what we want we will be fulfilled and esteemed by others. But it’s an illusion. We are all already complete and worthy but we cannot know it and experience it, until we give it away!

Only giving allows us to know what we are and what we have within. Ask the question- how can I serve? The intention to serve will point you towards what you need to give. If the intention is real it also generates the will.

The most successful people in life are not go getters, but go givers!

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  1. Terry 28th September 2010 at 13:05

    Spoken as one who gives freely of himself, your words have extra weight.

    Totally believe in this. I remember a young colleague, John, watched our then boss give to a street-guy. John asked why and George just replied “cast your bread upon the waters…” John’s response “I used to do that but I never got anything back.” I do hope John has moved on since then.

    I believe giving when you feel you can least afford to is the real test.

  2. Vita 15th May 2011 at 21:30

    Right on! Well said.

  3. Gemma W. 7th July 2012 at 17:08

    I agree with your message, but winners take action, and that’s what makes a real go-getter a go-getter. They make things happen. So in my view, your title is a misnomer.


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